"I have to wait again, before putting the frosting on. The waiting is hard. I want everything to be delicious all at once. I want to skip over the hard parts, the boring parts, the lonely and sad and angry parts. But if I do that, the cake won't be good. It won't be right. So I wait. Even though it's uncomfortable and too hot in the kitchen. Even though I don't feel like waiting for the good part." p. 324 "'Lawrence would have loved this,' Naomi says. It's a sad sentence; a sentence that makes us miss him a little bit more. But like the cake, the missing is a little sweet, too, a little wonderful, a little sad, a little messy and crooked and delicate and strange." p. 325-326 "No one's smiling right now, listening to a sad story about losing a job, but we're all together. It doesn't look sunny and beautiful and perfect. It's so much better than that... Love, in the way we take care of each other wh...